Friday, January 30, 2009

No pictures (and thats a GOOD thing)

Well wow what a week it's been. Last Saturday we were happy to have Anthony's sister AMY and her family come over for a visit from Indiana. We had planned it 3 weeks ago since our schedule can be complicated sometimes. When Amy called Sat. morning and said 1 of her kids was ill in the night and asked if we wanted to cancel we answered with a confident "no way, it's worth the risk". We had a lovely visit and quite enjoyed the stories and video footage they brought with them. Sunday was uneventful until about 9pm when Kali started complaining she didn't feel well. Now being wise old parents we immediately recognised the signs of "forgot to do my homework this weekend" illness that always hits on a Sunday night. With very little compassion we offered the token "barf bowl" as if to say, "we really wish you had done your homework so you wouldn't be feeling this way" and continued talking at the table. Less than 5 minutes later a mad dash across the living room and up the 1st set of stairs left Kali right at our feet curled horrifically around that bowl. "OK already, you win we won't make you go to school tomorrow" now can I help you into the bathroom? Yes we were dead wrong... this was no homework related illness... as she proved again and again and again over the next 12 hours. Kira likes to be as much like Kali as possible so she followed quickly behind her sisters example and was also very ill. Kyle being such a sympathetic guy was overcome from the sights and sounds that evening and said he felt nauseous himself on Monday morning. Without further questioning he stayed home as well. Tuesday was much the same as Monday, photos and descriptions unnecessary. By Tuesday evening though everyone seemed back to normal so we decided to send everyone back to school on Wednesday. Kyle had just seemed to have sympathetic pains for his sisters and had not provided any tangible evidence so when he texted me from school saying he still didn't feel that great, I was rather pessimistic. However when the school secretary called to inform me of the colorful display he had provided for his schoolmates in the hallway after lunch, I was instantly converted to full believer status.
I admit this whole parenting thing stumps me from time to time. Just when you think you know exactly whats going on something else happens that leaves you scratching your head. I am FAR from a perfect parent. But I can say I do give it my best every single day. I am so grateful to have the chance to be called MOM by these incredible kids that teach me soooo much. I love each one of them to pieces (in sickness and in health). I enjoy the deep friendships that take root as they get older and have the abilities to share their own thoughts and opinions with me about the world around them. I cherish this time with them and wish I could slow the clock down so we had more time together.

5 comments:

Krista Lou Cook said...

Yikes! Welcome to the world of the flu! Man, that must have been hard!

Anonymous said...

We dealt with that a couple of months ago... but you have more kids so you win! I hope you held it together & didn't get sick yourself. Aarg!

Franziska Patterson said...

Nice. I'm glad no pictures came with this. Aren't you glad though that they were at least old enough to barf into the toilet or something. When we visited Henry's sis over Christmas, their kids got sick, and it wasn't too much fun to watch her little 18-months old just barf wherever because he didn't know any better. Poor guy.

Darilyn said...

What a week you've had. I hope everyone is feeling better now.

Terri said...

What can I say, except, when you called & said Kali is sick, "be prepared for the rest of the family to join her". I hope it skips you & Anthony.
Love you, Mom